Single: From Failure to Freedom.

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Currently:

I am listening to the playlist of the mixed tape I made for my best friend who currently is in Michigan (I mailed it to her, because I'm that cool.)

It is a masterpiece if I do say so myself. Hopefully she will agree (to some degree).

Anywho,

today was fairly boring, I spent most of it doing my summer homework, but then I went on a bike ride to the park (the one nobody knows about, so I'm totally not naming it. It's MINE.) then to starbucks to get a green tea (unsweetened).

So you're probably wondering, "why the hell is she writing a blog about that shit? so boring."

Well, my dears, I am blogging because while I was out today, I experienced some serious revelations. So Alex (aforementioned best friend) is in cute boy heaven in Traverse City, MI and I'm stuck, boyless, in Highlands freakin Ranch. Lovely. Oh yeah, and to top it off count chuckle emailed her again, inviting her to the lake next saturday. Really Creepy actually, so that's not the part I'm really concerned about but I just kind of find it funny in a weird way so I wanted to write that in here. yeah.

Anyways that's not the point.

As I was wallowing in my loneliness and overwhelming jealousy of Alex I feel right now (the lucky hoe), I realized that I could probably easily have a guy right now. I know of a couple that are decent that wouldn't be too difficult to obtain.

So why don't I have them?

Because I haven't gotten off my lazy ass to pursue them! Of course they're not going to come to me, we haven't interacted since school! And it's not like they are just going to suddenly appear at some public place at the same time as I happen to be there, and strike up a conversation with me like "hey, let's hook up".

If I want action, I'm going to have to create it. I can't just sit here waiting for a guy to appear in my life and want me, I am actually going to have to go after someone! And it's not like it HAS to be somebody I already know, I can go talk to that quiet cutie in the music section of Borders, or strike up a conversation with the next cute clerk at the counter of whatever store I happen to shop at.

Okay, so I'm just stating the obvious here. So what? Just because the rest of the world has probably realized it, I obviously just now came to terms with it. Okay, so I knew this before. But it never really struck me as something that made a difference. But seriously, it truly does!

And it's not like the rest of you people are trying it out!

Maybe some of you, but I mean when you think about how many unhappily-single people there are in this world, they probably aren't doing much about it, or else things would totally change for them! Maybe not everybody has luck with love, so not EVERYBODY would get results,

but at least half of the unhappily-single population of the world could start doing something about it, and actually stop being single and mopey, and start being nailed and happy!

And that's guys too, not just girls.

Guys, let me tell you, if you have at least some appeal lookswise or personality-wise,

and just started flirting with some random strange girl, they would TOTALLY dig it. seriously.

Stop being shy and GO GET 'EM!